Showing posts with label blind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blind. Show all posts

Friday, November 9, 2012

A Mini-Trip to Cincy

Last Saturday, November 3rd, we rented a car (ours is on its last leg, but that's a story for another day) and headed up to Cincinnati for the night. Cincy is only an hour and a half away from Louisville, but it feels longer than that because of perpetual road construction, bad drivers, and traffic. I-71 has to be one of the worst interstates ever!

The reason for our trip was to attend a charity function benefiting children who have disabilities or who are from underprivileged backgrounds through the game of baseball. Many former Major League Hall-of-Famers were there, including Johnny Bench, Mike Schmidt, and Pete Rose (who isn't in the Hall but probably should be). We even received a VIP pass, which allowed us into a room with the players before the actual event, and included an open bar. It was in this room that I got to get my picture taken with Pete Rose. Pretty cool!
Picture of me and Pete Rose sitting on a couch

After dinner, we were introduced to the children who were nominated for the awards. One little girl was visually impaired and was wearing big glasses. She reminded me so much of me at that age. She didn't win, but still, she was so cute! The former players then shared stories of their days in the game. These stories stayed pretty PG-rated, since there were kids in the audience. I bet those same stories would be told completely differently in a different crowd!

After the event, we came back to the hotel bar for a little bit to have a drink. The next morning, we packed our bags and headed back down to Louisville to watch some football on an 100-inch projection screen!

The event was fun, and it benefited a great cause. Nathan and I were both a bit disappointed though. We get to attend these events and meet these famous people because of his job, which he has only had for two years. This is still new and exciting for us, especially so for Nathan. He's been following baseball since he was in kindergarten. Nathan is still struck with child-like wonder when he's in a room with such great players. Even though we get to do these things every now and then, it is still not a typical, run-of-the-mill experience for us. Some of the people we met at the event, though, take this for granted. If Babe Ruth were alive, having lunch with him a few times would be no big deal for them. They have the money and the influence and they know it. I guess we were both just disillusioned...

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Our Introduction

Nathan and I as we walk into the reception hall after the wedding ceremony

Nathan and I have been meaning to do this for a while now. What better time to start than soon after our wedding, right?? Although we've been together for a little over 3 years now, marriage is definitely a watershed event. We've now begun our life together.

A little about us...


 I am Marissa and my husband is Nathan. Originally from the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia, I was born legally blind. I moved to South Carolina in 2009 to attend graduate school. The day after I moved there, I met Nathan, who is from South Carolina. He actually hired me for the work-study job I had at the museum on campus. It was apparent right away that we had a connection. It didn't take long for our friendship to turn into something more. A year later, we were both unhappy in our careers and surroundings, so he started looking for another job. Lo and behold! he applied for and got a near-perfect job working as the Exhibitions Director for a baseball museum. History, sports, museums all combined into one job - perfect! I certainly wasn't going to stay in South Carolina without him, so we packed up and moved to Louisville, Kentucky. We love, love, love it here! In the last few months, I also got a great job, working in social media for an organization that makes products for people who are blind and visually impaired. We were married October 6, 2012 in a beautiful, very "us" ceremony here in Louisville. We are so excited to start our life together in this great city!

What's up with the title?


Even if you're not a trekkie, you may have heard of the saying "Boldly go where no man {or woman, thank you} has gone before" from the TV shows Star Trek, and Star Trek: The Next Generation. Nathan is a HUGE trekkie. He's loved it since he was little. I would have laughed in your face if you had told me three years ago that I'd be a Trek fan now. But I am. He got me into it -- that darn peer pressure!

But the name symbolizes more than just our mutual geekdom. Nathan once asked me what I wanted to see in the world. Being legally blind, I can't "see" everything, but I want to see everything. I want to go everywhere in the world, have new experiences throughout my life. The world is such a big place--I think it is imperative to see as much of it as possible. Nathan feels the same way, one of the many reasons why I love him. In our wedding vows, I vowed to "boldly go on life's adventures" with Nathan. So, we want to "boldly go" everywhere. Or almost everywhere. I'm not sure I want to go to Saudi Arabia or the North Pole!

This will be our accounts of our journeys together, whether we're journeying to Shelbyville, only a few miles away, or the Kamchatka peninsula. In the 19th century, travelogues were the big thing at the time. This will be our "travelblogue," if you will.

We can't wait to get started!